Family's, ya gotta love em

My family is crazy all of us are certifiable nuts theirs not a sane won in the bunch and believe me 8 kids is a bunch. We all seem to have our own little psychosis going on and I always wonder where it came from. My mother was a kind loving woman, just ask anyone she worked with they all loved her and she was a wonderful nurse loving and kind to the preemies she cared for. My dad a competent and friendly teacher he loved those poor handicapped kids he worked with for years and was very good at handling all their needs. so I ask you how to seemingly normal adults could raise such misfit kid? Some of my sisters insist it was all my mothers fault she was great at work but at home she was depressed and ornery (according to those sisters)all the time. To some of my other sisters my dad was distant and emotionally unavailable. So do you want to know what I think? I think that to a point (and not a very sharp one) that there both right. I think my parents did the best they could with what they new at the time that they loved us and wanted the best for us but like all parents, including me, had no idea what the best thing was and now that were all adults its time to forgive and forget and stop blaming all are problems on the two people who loved us the most. After all Heavenly Father gave us free agency to so use it to change for the better and forgive the past, then and only then will our private crazies heal!